Game Nights

By Ry’Shawn Winn

Everyone enjoys a kickback or game night. It's a fantastic way to connect with friends and family and simply have a good time. However, there's more to these gatherings than just the games. It's the mix of each person's personality that combines to create the unique vibe of the evening.

One group at game night consists of those who use drugs, either by smoking or consuming edibles to get high. Their presence adds an interesting layer to the atmosphere, both positively and negatively, much like different personalities do. Some people get high and let their minds wander, which isn't necessarily bad, but it can be distracting when it's time to relax and listen to music. The goal of game night is to unwind and briefly escape reality while the world keeps turning.

Then there are those who are high but still able to function well at the event. These individuals are likely to be at your game night, bringing a certain energy. They're there to truly escape reality and are genuinely invested in the night because they need that break. Honestly, if a game night lacks this type of personality, can it really be called a game night? They help elevate the evening, making it more enjoyable.

When you think of pre-game, alcohol drinkers probably come to mind. They are also essential to the game's atmosphere. There are subgroups within this personality, similar to the first. Some drink just for the sake of it and may forget their manners, sometimes going too far. However, this isn't entirely negative, as these are the people who will energize the gathering, getting everyone moving and adding a much-needed dynamic to the night.

A game night wouldn't be complete without the competitive individuals who attend mainly for the excitement of victory and the honor of winning. These players are not simply there to socialize and enjoy the company of friends; their main goal is to dominate the games and come out on top. Their presence infuses the evening with an electrifying atmosphere, as they bring a level of focus and determination that can heighten the competitive spirit among all participants. If they lose a game, you can be almost certain they'll want a rematch, and they won't leave game night without securing a win. This particular person extends game nights to where the real fun begins.

First-timers and introverts tend to be a bit timid and shy, adding a unique dynamic to the atmosphere, which isn't necessarily negative. This individual can demonstrate how well the mix works because if everyone encourages them and makes them feel welcome, it shows the people at your game night are genuine. This added personality could be either positive or negative, as they need to settle into the event. Once they do, their true personality emerges, often leading to delightful surprises.

As you get to know them better, you'll discover a personality that is both complex and simple. These individuals usually aim to ensure everyone is happy and are often the ones who bring people together, making them ideal for a game night. Sometimes, they may feel socially exhausted and not participate fully, but they derive joy from seeing everyone together, creating memories they helped facilitate. This is a crucial and often underrated role, as they have accepted life and are no longer running from it, choosing instead to navigate it with the support of friends and family.

Having all these personalities in one room usually creates a harmonious blend. We gather to momentarily escape life's pressures without being overwhelmed by them. The fact that you don't need all these personalities for a perfect game night indicates that every game night is unique yet similar. Much like individuals with different backgrounds and cultures, yet sharing the same essence.